I’d probably die a thousand times over if I had to look at myself getting eaten out which is why I kind of really want to do it sometime except not at all except maybe sure.
Month: June 2014
Sweetheart gets incentives for good work.
It’s great work that lets her follow through, though.
These shoes are pretty representative of how I’d dress if there were just no rules in this world.
Would you and Sir ever consider eventually having kids with the kind of lifestyle (kinky, poly) that you have?
StandardYeesh. Kids are kind of the farthest thing from my mind right now but let’s see if I can tackle this.
Honestly, lifestyle aside, I don’t know about kids to begin with. I’m an ambitious person and this country still doesn’t provide adequate childcare, maternity leave and support for working women. I also want to do a lot of traveling and experience a lot of things that would be hard to do when making children a priority. Sir’s the same way.
Certainly, poly and kink do complicate the already massive responsibilities of parenthood. I think we’d both make pretty good parents, though, with some serious growing up. I’ve done a lot of work with children and Sir’s much older than his siblings, which has made their relationship more quasi-parental than anything else.
But, I think I’d be happy enough if it turned out that it was just Sir and I. I like the little space we create when it’s just us. I’d be happy just kind of chilling out with him for however long we’re together (and then fucking other people but then coming home to him.)
Thursday Thoughts
Standard- So I know I am the worst but I really don’t like The Slap, even though the explanation is interesting to me. Like, I also hated the thing with the people kissing for the first time. I don’t know. Part of my complaint is that while there is some variety in the men, most of the women differ only in clothing styles.
- I’ve been loving all the responses to sexist dress codes. All the posters and fliers are inspirational and make me wish I were braver in school as a kid. These gents are among some of my favorites! The one doing the Angelina leg is killing it.
- Speaking of schools, Jessica Williams on The Daily Show with Jon Stewart did a great job explaining the climate/obstacle course of sexual menace that women have to navigate in college. I’d highly recommend you watch the whole video!
- I think I found my favorite straightwhiteboystexting.
- Here’s a funny thing because intersectionality is super important.
- Also your weekly reminder that female-led movies are usually pretty darn successful and should be happening more often.
- And, of course, the weekly pizza.
- OH AND: I was just texting Sir and his phone autocorrected “heteroflexibility” to “heteroflexibooty” to which I say HELL YES.
Me: I’m missing you.
Sir: I miss you.
Me: OH MY GOD THE ICE CREAM TRUCK IS OUTSIDE
Me: OH MY GOD
Me: But I’m in my underwear
Me: NOOOOOOO
Sir: You are such a little girl, it’s not even funny.
“Life makes fools of all of us sooner or later. But keep your sense of humor and you’ll at least be able to take your humiliations with some measure of grace.” ― Paul Murray, Skippy Dies.
I always beg Sir to do this. I’ve done it once with another partner and it was lots of fun, and I know Sir would do a really good job at it. Let’s call it a hunch.
But, the last time I seriously asked him to, he said “no.” Not because he didn’t want to, but because “I’m not going to do it until I can do it exactly how it should be done. When I do it, I want to do it right.”
Swoon.
“Most things break, including hearts. The lessons of life amount not to wisdom, but to scar tissue and callus.” ― Wallace Stegner, The Spectator Bird.
“I understood that in this small space of time we had mutually surrendered our loneliness and replaced it with trust.” ― Patti Smith, Just Kids.