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Thank you guys for the advice you’ve been sending. I promise to get back to you soon, this week’s just a little crazy.

I should elaborate that Craftsmate and I are honestly mostly vanilla, go on vanilla dates, don’t wind up with his finger up my butt in public places, etc. We’ve got most of it sort of confined to the bedroom but we sort of want to expand out a little bit without going all naked on a leash. And so we’re sort of trying to negotiate what we want stuff to “look like.”

But, yes, thank you for your messages. They’re all very sweet and it’s wonderful to know I can totally take relationship advice from people on the Internet (look, Mom).

Now, ugh, to make myself sleep.

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Mostly, because she knows the wastefulness of it all drives him crazy.

And she likes doing just that.

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Otherwise, she’s far too fidgety.

390nm:

Come fly with me, let’s fly, let’s fly away
If you can use some exotic booze
There’s a bar in far Bombay
Come on and fly with me, let’s fly, let’s fly away

frank sinatra

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Hey. Hey.

Play nice.

cabinetofdesire:

What must I say? Congratulations? Ooh how fantastically edgy?

Here, let me whip out my cock and spank my monkey to this piping-hot display of D/s carnality. Unf-unf *spurt*. Oh my monkey is so well and truly spanked.

Children, that is a terrible blade angle. Utterly ineffective. All it’s doing is scraping shaving soap off an already shaved cunt. 

heretoenjoy:

Oh. My god. That is edgy Daddy-care and knife play all in one. I would be incredibly inclined to wiggle but incredibly motivated to remain perfectly still. A tingling predicament.

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whyexactly:

Could you handle being defined

by a little science experiment in which

we throw a million ideas at the wall

and take note of which ones stick?

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It’s hard sometimes negotiating dynamics.

So, Craftsmate and I are involved in what can be considered a “vanilla” relationship (boyfriend-girlfriend) and a kinky BDSM (chocolate?) dynamic. And I’m happy about both of these. But sometimes we have trouble finding a balance, if that makes any sense. I feel like it’s the basic Secretary-style problem of “we can’t do this everyday”/“why not?” sort of problem, except both of us seem to embody both of those opinions at once.

So, I guess I’m soliciting some of you guys here: how do you do it? Most of my relationships either had very bedroom-only BDSM dynamics and several of my “serious” BDSM arrangements have not been with primary partners. Sometimes, it’s hard to figure out where one dynamic ends and the other begins.

Contributions, anecdotes and advice would all be appreciated. You guys seem to have it together, so lay some wisdom on me.

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I got a very sweet card from a very special follower and it made me smile ear to ear.

dazzlingdefects:

Tumblr on We Heart It. http://weheartit.com/entry/41974888

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Daddy says some girls grasp subtlety better than others.

There’s a learning curve.

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Image submitted by herdirtylittleheart.

Craftsmate just saw this picture and asked if I wanted a little deer friend.

Squealing.

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montecervesa:

A photo from a delightful shoot last October. There might be a few more coming up.

Photographer: C. deMontecervesa

Models: M.L-E. & S.N.

Stylist: C.V.

Yeah I’m gonna need a few minutes.