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My therapist once told me that she believed one of the biggest misconceptions about kink was that people turning their fears and past traumas into sexual fantasies were somehow weak or still broken.

“I think what you do is incredible,” she’d said, “because you are taking back that narrative. You’re making it your own. You are asserting control over it and making it operate on your terms, in the service of you.”

But it is still bewildering to dig beneath some fantasy I have and find at its root something that utterly terrifies me.

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Filed under things that basically play on a loop in my head.

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Go on. Make me afraid.

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Is there a word for the fetish of big hands just overwhelming faces? Because I’ve got it pretty bad.

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Let’s call it coping. But a recent upswing of (non-violent) break-ins in my area gave me a lot of anxiety. And somehow that coincided with me having one or two “stranger in the night” type fantasies. Which is super, super problematic for sure. But it is what it is.

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I would probably cry the whole time. Which is why I want it.

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He smiled, the kind of toothy smile that she had once found alluring, but now made her feel sick. He raised his hand to her face again and she flinched, but he simply stroked the stray hair from her face and pressed a kiss to her forehead.

“It makes me so hard when I see how bad you want to get away from me.” He whispered softly.

Filed under: problematic stuff that gets me really wet.

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Even though the idea of it is super terrifying to me, I’d love to go to a play party in this sort of situation one day.

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Chantelle Fox – MFH

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idrinkyourtears:

I will always reblog waterboarding as sexual torture.

always.

Filed under scary, scary stuff I know he’s going to do to me one day.

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(hng) the glint of the knife is what got to me first, and then the gloves, and then the way she’s just lolling back in her chair, helpless.

I’ll, uh, be over here. (hng.)

Oh my god what is this FROM.