Sir went to an event recently with some of the people from the New Year’s Party we went to. I’m glad he’s building a community. He’s really all about building a community and going to munches and talking to people.
I kind of just prefer taking my clothes off in a crowded room and getting to know people that way. I’m not as good at subtlety, I guess. Or small talk.
There’s something really sexy about a good smirk.
So one of my awesome followers directed me over to the longer version of the video of this. It’s labelled as “Ally Kay interracial with asian guy” but I guess it’s something. (WOULD IT BE SO HARD TO CALL HIM BY HIS NAME?)
Nonetheless, some things I’ve learned:
“Punishment Incorporated: Ashley” featuring Keni Styles and Ashley (pics, video)
I have been on this site for almost three years. I’ve been in a relationship with Sir for one of those three.
During that entire time, I’ve used a lot of photos of white couples to tell stories about the stuff we do. Tumblr – and the entirety of the porn industry – is really white-washed. And I know how annoying this is coming from a white girl.
But what’s especially annoying is that if we were “the other way around,” I’d have a plethora of photos. Which is a whole other problematic rabbit hole, but the fact is that it’s always felt vaguely wrong or frustrating when one of us posts a picture of a white couple and is implies that it’s “so us.”
And then I stumbled across the photo. It is the first time I have seen a picture on tumblr of an Asian man and a white woman. I’m worried here that like every other word I write is super problematic, but there’s something really awesome and weirdly validating about finally seeing a picture like this.
Oh, and looking at their dynamic, it is “so us.”
Such a cute photo