Shy Baby

Me: I’m really open about sexual things and what I like.

Daddy: Princess what do you want me to do to you?

Me: I uh I want um *hides*

Tumblr doms are so unimaginative.

You want someone, someone who will fulfill your every desire, to serve you, and the ONLY thing you can think of is them sucking your cock?

Basically, you want a souped-up Maserati, yet the only thing you plan on doing with it is driving to the liquor store across the street. Just. No.

I’m not trying to assume anything here and if I’m off base then just ignore this, but don’t you worry about hurting your wife? My wife keeps telling me she wants it rough and I’m trying, but I refuse to hurt her. How do you do it and still sleep at night?

romanticdominant-deactivated201:

When Tori and I were first starting to explore D/s, I worried myself sick that I would indeed hurt her at some point and never be able to forgive myself.

She is my world and I love her more than life so, yes, it was a VERY difficult thing to reconcile in my head. I love her, but I hit her? WTF?

For a long time, I discounted the idea that anyone could find pleasure through pain, but I have had to eat those words. Please don’t misunderstand, I would NEVER, EVER really harm Tori, but within the confines of safe, sane and consensual play, rough, dominant behavior from me took our sex to a level I could never have imagined.

What I came to understand and accept was that the level of force Tori and I needed was not something that could cause real damage. For us, dominance and control was what made our D/s work.

In addition, we ALWAYS approached anything new slowly and with great caution. She had her safeword and I absolutely trusted her to use it if things went too far and she absolutely trusted me to stop immediately if she used it.

Whenever we play, her safety is my first priority. I NEVER scene with her if my head isn’t completely in the right zone. Anger, frustration, impatience etc. have no place in D/s. You must be in control of your emotions, the scene, everything or postpone till you’re ready.

masterandmyslave:

Just a typical smoke detector. Or is it?

Pull open the lid to check the battery and look what you find…

The perfect point for securing my slave when she needs a good flogging… Or maybe just needs to be immobilized while my fingers do the walking…

Either way, this is the perfect way to help conceal our lifestyle choice from prying eyes of visitors who might not understand our relationship.

It took me a while to stumble upon this idea, but I had this installed in a few short hours of work one weekend. Let the fun BEGIN!!!

Uhhhh…Sir?

Yesssss.

Channeling this today.

Come at me.

pretty-procrastination:

fat-grrrl-activism:

“In 1921, early suffragettes often donned a bathing suit and ate pizza in large groups to annoy men…it was a custom at the time”

Dance because you’re drunk at a big dance party with your friends and Michael Jackson is playing, not because ‘no one is watching.’ Everyone is watching. We’re at a fucking party. That’s how parties work.