poly problems

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Say what you want, but I’ll contend that Mockingjay: Part I should actually be called Poly Problems: The Movie.

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Can I propose the term “poly eclipse?" 

As in, when you and your primary both have a date planned for about the same time on the same day?

Somebody high five me.

Trying To Organize Your Polyamorous Lifestyle? There’s An App For That

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Trying To Organize Your Polyamorous Lifestyle? There’s An App For That

learningpoly:

The app includes a social network for sharing experiences, shielded from judgy outsiders.

This doesn’t seem like something I’d need/use personally, but I think it’s a great idea!  Depending on how good the app itself is, of course.  Apparently the calendar function isn’t really an improvement over Google Calendar, but I like the idea of the other features, like sharing events and texts with some/all of your partners, and creating lists of rules/boundaries (or not) with partners.

Well, hey.

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I’m bringing one of my (comparatively) vanilla friends to a munch tomorrow. We were hanging out the other night and she asked if she could come along. 

She’s a little bit kinky, but I’ve never mixed friend groups like this before aside from bringing Pup to a party once. 

I’m just a little bit worried my silly, wild, boundary-blurring kinky friends are going to freak her out a little. But also a little hopeful they do, maybe?

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I went on my first date with somebody I met on tinder (whatever) yesterday and he actually handed me his freaking business card to confirm to me that yes he was a legitimate human being.

But we had a great time. We have some similar interests and he’s a great conversationalist. He’s got a Southern accent which clearly does absolutely nothing at all for me clearly guys clearly. He’s also got about a foot on me, but so does Sir, just about, and practically anybody else I hang out with by default of me being the shortest ever.

We ended up making out in his car at the end for a little while and we’re going to try to see each other again next week. We’ve both got busy schedules and I’m kind of like argh nobody has time for this I definitely do not have time for this but I think I’ve determined that scheduling is the ultimate poly problem.

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kimchicuddles:

where are the settings to get my brain to sync with my google calendar?

My struggle exactly.

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Someone who I don’t feel like I owe the whole “I’m non-monogamous” explanation to caught me out with one of my partners last night.

This is something I’ve worried about for a while.

My anxiety is totally triggered over it because I hardly want it getting around my program that I’m cheating on my boyfriend or whatever. I don’t feel like I owe this person, who isn’t even my friend, an explanation. Or some of the other people that he might tell because he’s kind of a piece of shit.

So, ugh. Poly problems.