Someone who I don’t feel like I owe the whole “I’m non-monogamous” explanation to caught me out with one of my partners last night.

This is something I’ve worried about for a while.

My anxiety is totally triggered over it because I hardly want it getting around my program that I’m cheating on my boyfriend or whatever. I don’t feel like I owe this person, who isn’t even my friend, an explanation. Or some of the other people that he might tell because he’s kind of a piece of shit.

So, ugh. Poly problems.