Month: April 2015

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This set is kind of necessary for my existence so.

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nosypadawan:

Sometimes I think of this… Just sometimes

Hi, my name is Ivy and I think about this all the time.

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nankingdecade:

Being a kept woman isn’t just about dolling up in pretty lingerie and getting used when he likes. It also means not being able to leave.

Us, basically.

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Reason number whatever that I need some little friends.

The Prophecy Was Right

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Me: I just don’t want someone thinking I’m a size queen. I’m not a size queen.
Pup: You’re just a size queen about height.
Me: I am not a size queen about height.
Pup: You date tall guys.
Me: Yeah, I do kind of date guys between 5’8 and 6’2. I like guys who are too tall for me.
Pup: See?
Me, later: *eating lunch*
Me, later: *remembers Sir’s mother basically once said the same thing*
Me, later: *realizes I am Sir’s mother*
Me, later: *chokes on salad*

Do you know any black couples that choose to enjoy themselves the way you and your partners do? I never hear of any and I’ve never seen any, I’m starting to think maybe I’m the odd ball out for having an interest in it

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Of course there are. Kink doesn’t just skip over entire races, though it may be perceived differently across different cultures. There’s tons of people and blogs on here run by black couples/individuals who are interested in kink and are engaging with it! 

Wow, okay. So I think you’re great and I honestly have a tumblr crush on you. You have inspired me to finally make the leap of faith into the world of non-monogamy with my current partner and I couldn’t be more excited, nervous, and fucking terrified etc etc etc. Thank you for existing and for sharing your experiences and being REAL with what your relationships look like. Thank you thank you thank you.

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Well, thank you! Best of luck to you and your partner. 

And to you and anyone else reading this: I don’t claim to know all the answers, but I’m here to lend an ear when this stuff gets hard.