Sir ordered me to write a list and post it up on here, in addition to keeping a google doc where I could add to it when I thought of more. But, here it is so far. I think you can get an idea of the topic fairly easily:

• I feel owned when we are in public and you reach over and just start playing with my hair.

• I feel owned when you say “yes” – strangely, more than when you say “no” – maybe because I knew I would get it but I still had to ask.

• I feel owned when I do the tasks you put on my calendar, especially when they’re menial, vanilla things like having to paint my nails every Thursday.

• I feel owned when I put my hair up to go work out and your marks are on my neck.

• I feel owned when you remind me that it’s my bedtime.

• I feel owned when you call me “your girl.”

• I feel owned when you have me plug myself before I see you and when you push on the handle of the plug through my clothes in public to make sure I followed your orders.

• I feel owned when I get really subspaced and you know exactly how to take care of me and exactly how to push me deeper.

• I feel owned when you kiss me sweetly right after you’ve fucked me hard.

• I feel owned when I try to hide that I am into something or that I want something, but you know that I like it right away.

• I feel owned when I realize that I have no secrets and I like it that way.

• I feel owned when I almost call you “Sir” in a vanilla situation.

• I feel owned when you make me cum so hard it’s almost embarrassing.

• I feel owned when I catch myself fantasizing about collars with the kind of excitement and interest that I have never had for them before.

• I feel owned when we’ve been messing around a bit and you find I’m soaking wet and ready for you. And then show me.

• I feel owned when I remember that I don’t get to curate what you see of me, as you once told me, and I’m finally getting comfortable with that idea.