Month: December 2014

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you’re having the worst day ever and you’ve been on the receiving end of rough news and everything’s been going wrong and so you throw on a sequined dress on a Wednesday because fuck conventions and then a blazer because fuck even more conventions and go get ready to meet your boyfriend whose guts you love so so much even when stuff has been increasingly difficult and you’re facing about 500 obstacles to go hang out with a really nice follower and you’re just like fuck everything because eventually all the terribleness sublimates into a weird, comic kind of invincibility. 

Here’s to saving this day, tumblr.

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This is like the ultimate challenge for me. I’m an absolutely horrible multi-tasker. So when it comes to this, I just utterly fail at it because I can’t focus at all.

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Ugh.

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the-fisher-queen:

ghostruto:

if you are under 18:

  • your nudes are child pornography 
  • people you send them to can be charged with possession of child pornography
  • you can be charged with distribution of child pornography 
  • don’t take nudes

This is not about body shaming, this is not about ‘telling you what to do with your sexuality’ this is literally a federal crime don’t fuck with the law okay.

Have you ever thought about a donate button or a wishlist?

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As someone who doesn’t produce any original videos, and whose content mostly consists of words and the occasional photo of me getting fucked or wearing lingerie, I always felt a little odd about it. 

Especially when it comes to wishlists, I don’t particularly want my address hanging out there. You wouldn’t want to come to my house. Too messy.

But, I’ve gotten a bunch of outreach about a donate button (why, yo?), and so in the spirit of the holidays, I’ve come through and thrown one up on my main page. 

So, yeah. Make it rain on me.

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That Time Pup Was Celibate For a Little Bit, Part Two

I didn’t want to cross any boundaries or make stuff awkward, so I tried to give Pup space. However, this was a little impossible when he kept turning up everywhere. I encountered him on the street, on campus, on the way back from running errands. 

It’s really hard to maintain boundaries when the person won’t just disappear. Even harder when you’re attracted to them and you’re trying to be very good and you don’t want to get involved in their breakup sadness because you’ve got to take care of yourself, too. And it’s especially hard when your tendency is to want to care for other people, but this is just totally not the time or place.

So, when Pup asked me to join him to get coffee and study together, I decided to make sure we were in a public place where basic boundaries could be maintained. Because, yeah. You can’t say I didn’t try.

nevver:

Yes.

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It’s a typical evening where Sir’s trying to work from home and I’m buzzing around him and acting all little and bratty, like, “or you could just give me attention.”

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I get to see him in a few hours. I can’t wait. I can barely wait.

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It’s a little weird to leave for the holidays this year. In addition to having an amazing group of friends in my city, I had the realization sitting in the airport that no matter where I am, I’m always stuck missing one partner or the other.

Fuck.