First, on how to let your partner know: Maybe find a porn a little softer and more peripheral to your interests and ask your partner to watch it with you? Or find a scene on a TV show/movie that turns you on and bring it up? Or just be like, “hey, I love when we do this, but how about we tried adding this?”
Start slow and easy. Light, playful spanking on the butt. Maybe having your partner hold your wrists down when they kiss you.
We met each other about two and a half years ago when he found my tumblr and recognized me. He assured me my secret was safe, and when I got up the courage to meet him I tried my hardest to deny the electricity I felt between the two of us. Now, he’s my boyfriend, my owner, my dominant, my best friend. We’re about to enter into some seriously uncertain times as he’s leaving the country for an amazing opportunity. But, to celebrate that and as his present to me for our second anniversary, we packed up some naughty stuff and spent a night at a hotel. This is our favorite shot from the next morning, when we had sex facing the window and watched the joggers in the early fog and the cars in the street, overlooking the city where we fell in love.
Flattered we turned up on NN for Valentine’s.
I totally may have already posted this photo because I got impatient but whatever guys just go with it I don’t want to take another photo today it’s Lazy Sunday okay.
Also, the award for best reblog comment goes to bossassmish:
“Just appreciating a pair of cage underwear that isn’t suffocating the larger booties”
That’s how it’s done, yo.
IT WAS ACCOMPANIED BY A PENIS.
Literally when I open my askbox and see your stupid dickpics and all-caps praise of my blog.
Or you could just not.
I think we all know who this is really for.
Look at how goddamn perfect it is.
thinkivykink, on request, this is the one that made me think of you immediately no end. Do you have that jacket? If you don’t, you need one.
Oh my God.
Happy Valentine’s, tumblr. About to go eat Chinese food in my pajamas with Pup and Saltine. I miss Sir like crazy, but I’m thankful for what I have.
- boycott 50 shades of grey
- spread awareness about domestic abuse and rape culture
- treat yo self
Sir’s Valentine’s Day present to me was pizza-related because duh.
