Because of my piercings having to heal, my nipples haven’t received any attention since the first few days of the New Year. Let’s say there’s some forms of attention I miss a lot more than others.
black and white
My flight home to see Sir during the Thanksgiving holiday ended up delayed by a snowstorm. I wound up arriving at his place several hours late, hungry and exhausted. He had dinner ready, and afterwards we took a bath together.
I’ve talked about the fact that I’ve never taken a bath with a partner on this blog a couple of times. It’s something I’ve always intended on doing, but between dorm showers and my own apartment only having a small standing shower, it never happened.
I was kind of looking forward to coming back and jumping his bones, but I enjoyed the fact that we were able to have a little bit of sweet d/s instead. I washed him, and then he washed me. I cannot begin to describe the thrill of having his hands on me again, of sleeping beside him that night.
“I’m gonna tell you something you don’t want to hear.”
Sir shipped me some of my things from his place and they arrived the other day. Among them was my tail. Even though I have it here now and even though I haven’t been able to be a kitty in a while, I don’t think I would be able to do it with anybody but Sir. Which stinks, because I miss doing that stuff so much.
I just realized it’s honestly been forever since I’ve worn my ball gag.
This would be a perfectly accurate gif representation of my relationship with Sir if the other hand was going for her butt.
How I should be spending my day off.
Supplication.
Lately, my head’s been going to some pretty dark places.
Honestly, some of the most fulfilling stuff I’ve done with partners has been giving dominants aftercare. I really dislike how the whole idea of aftercare is so centered on submissives, and totally doesn’t take into account the dominant’s experience and feelings. While it’s not always the simplest thing to do, it’s important and rewarding to sit with that partner and be like, “hey, look, I’m fine and you’re a good person and we both had fun.”