I’ve decided that in addition to Topless Tuesday, I’m gonna roll out a new tradition called Slutty Selfie Saturday, which will be a celebration of me being brave in semi-public places.
This one’s about a week old, as you can see by the fact that I still have the string around my wrist. But, I think the proposed title will speak for itself:
“This is Definitely Not My Bathroom.”
I love the delicate little lace blindfold in this.
20. A food that you would like to use during a sexual experience:
Gonna go full 100% stereotypical and say strawberries. Like blindfold, strawberries, kitchen floor. All Hollywood and I have no shame about it.
42. What is one random object you’ve used to masturbate?
Hehe, I used to pop the top off of those Venus electric razors and use those (ONCE AGAIN, SANS RAZOR) before I had a vibrator.
45. What is one song you’d like to have sex to?
Like something we haven’t already used? This has been sitting on my iTunes for a while waiting for you to pull my hair and do stuff to me to. Or like this. Or definitely this. Or please just come over and fuck me and we’ll make our own music.
53. Do you like giving head? (why/why not)
I do when it’s with someone I care about. I like making them feel good and feeling useful and helpful. I like how their hand goes in my hair or how sometimes they just fuck my face or how much it just makes me want them totally.
Not nosy at all!
I have been in monogamous relationships. Sir and I were even monogamous at one point in our relationship. And while I was happy with the person, I felt like I was a little limited?
You see, poly/ethical non-monogamy for me centers upon the fact that I develop crushes really easily and I love having new experiences with new people. While I’m an extremely shy person, I’m also the kind of girl who loves to surround herself with people she finds exciting, interesting and, yes, attractive.
While I consider my boyfriend my home base, I like messing around with other people. I love the newness of it. I love all the unique things another person can bring to a dynamic or an experience. And I love how much deeper it’s made my relationship with my boyfriend. We’d established some strong trust initially before going into this, and now our trust for each other has deepened, although it has been tested quite a bit.
I brought up opening the relationship with two other primary partners. One took it all right, but the results weren’t very good because we were not accountable to each other. The other was really horrible about it and called me a whore. That wasn’t very fun at all.
While I love my boyfriend, it’s not so much that it’s difficult to be with just him as much as I would love to still have rich and fulfilling experiences with other people in addition to him.
I hope this helps!
12. Is one orgasm enough? Are multiple orgasms necessary?
I really think it depends on the scenario and your mood that day.
13. Something that you have hidden in your room that you don’t want anyone to find:
Haaaa. I’ve got a whole drawer.
43. Have/would you ever masturbate at work/school?
Blush. Yes.
29. Best sexual compliment you ever got:
I’ve gotten some of the typical like “you fuck like a pornstar” kind of stuff. But Sir’s said an awful lot of kind things about my butthole.
46. What is something nonsexual that makes you horny?
When someone I’m into puts their hand right on the curve of my back above my butt.
25. Worst possible time to get horny:
I was hanging out recently with Sir and his family and he was wearing a suit and looked damn good and I was just like nope, keep it together, Ivy.
27. Worst sexual idea you ever had:
Since I realized I identified with her pretty closely:
6. The most awkward moment during a sexual experience was when ______________
I was really overtired and I kept almost falling asleep during a threesome. I think I wrote about it once on here a while ago. In my defense, the bed was super cozy.
66. Would you switch phones with your significant other for a day?
For what purpose?
73. Have you ever cheated on someone? (Why?)
I have. Because he cheated first and I had a fucked up sense of justice back then.
Hello!
3. A fictional person that you think would be good in bed:
Mary Garth from Middlemarch. She seems pretty no-nonsense, she’s got a good sense of humor and she doesn’t take shit from anybody.
24. Three spots that drive you insane:
1. Crook of the neck into the clavicle region.
2. Inner thigh.
3. Right where my throat meets my jaw, like right at the hinges.