No matter how grown-up she tries to be, she’s never too grown-up for lap time.
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See those two quick little breaths she sucks in right as he’s pulling her top down?
Yeah.
Those just about make this whole thing.
Sometimes, screen captures from pornography are incredibly misleading.
There’s almost a reverence in his face here, an appreciation that what he is taking doesn’t actually belong to him, that it wasn’t completely his to take, that her consent – under whatever the circumstances may be – gave him what normal circumstances would not.
Of course, a freaking porn screen capture makes me wax dramatic.
I looked up the trailer: it wasn’t a complete disappointment, but I was pretty far off the mark.
I can’t get into shibari. It’s fascinating and sometimes really beautiful, but I just don’t even think I have the patience for it.
I need it rough and sudden and urgent. The time it takes to get the ropework just right really detracts from that. I prefer function over form. Hands to hold me down, rope or whatever is around to replace the hands, then hands and pressure to subdue me when I try to fight.
And I want the other person to not even be able to wait to have everything tied off so perfectly before tearing me apart. After the takedown, sure, things can be adjusted. But, during that first struggle, I want to feel the urgency. And shibari is too paced, too patient for that.
“Perhaps one did not want to be loved so much as to be understood.” – George Orwell, 1984.
“I won’t believe that our love’s a mystery
I won’t believe our love’s a sin
I want you to kiss me like a stranger once again.”
“O stand, stand at the window
As the tears scald and start;
You shall love your crooked neighbour
With your crooked heart.”
– W. H. Auden, “As I Walked Out One Evening”.
Being undressed by someone else can be an incredibly sobering experience. Especially when they go excruciatingly slow, in which case you’re forced to adjust to their pace and accept the fact that you cannot simply raise your hands and throw your shirt off. The ball’s in their court, so to speak, the game’s in their hands.
Oh my gosh the caption on this made me laugh hysterically. Well done, quickienewyork, very well done.
©2011 The Dirty Gentleman (#388)
I love those tender bro moments in the middle of a threesome.
“Buy the ticket, take the ride." – Hunter S. Thompson, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas.