SG and I finally got around to our second joint porn-viewing yesterday. He picked these two videos that were not particularly inspirational, but we mostly got each other off from extrapolating from the video and personalizing it. They would get into an interesting position and we would place it in terms of what we do, in terms of how we would use it. And that was pretty damn hot.
dialogue
Has this been an issue for me with partners in the past? Hell to the yeah. Terms are always a weird topic to go over. You feel so vulnerable presenting what you want. You’re not even sure it’s what you want half the time and you keep going over it in your head wondering if you can handle that or if that isn’t nearly enough. Terms of any kind of relationship are that way, I suppose. But when it comes to something of this nature, its “tabooness” and the associated discomfort factor in a lot. The emotional drain. The urges. The constant fluctuation of libido. The interplay of intention (for sexual gratification, for fun, for power, for love). It’s all a lot to handle.
gpoy.