84. I love dirty talk! First of all, I think communication during sexual activity is important, even if I am entirely too blushy to effectively do it myself sometimes. But more than that, I get **really** turned on by it. (And entirely silent sexual encounters kinda freak me out.) Like, I replay good dirty talk in my head, I reread good dirty texts. I’m a big reader in general, so maybe it comes from that? I place a lot of value on the power of words.

87. To that end, I usually prefer reading smut/erotica to watching porn. A lot of porn is grossly exploitative or formulaic or just plain dull. If I’m going to watch something, I usually prefer homemade shit. I like the enthusiasm, the genuineness – seeing somebody’s cat just kinda wander into the shot and whatnot. I also bought Fifty Shades of Dylan Ryan after hearing about it at a feminist porn conference I went to with @herdirtylittleheart and watch that kinda often.