Hi so I absolutely am going to bed but I just need to announce somewhere in a chorus of squealing and joy that I finally sort of basically outed myself as non-monogamous in the sense that I invited a non-primary partner to a party I was hosting and didn’t try to awkwardly pass him off as just a friend in front of my cohort and friends.
Sir’s been encouraging me to be brave about this for so long and I finally took the risk and texted him about it right after and he’s so proud so I’m all glowy.
And I thought my friends would be weird about it but instead the feedback I mostly got was, “so, he’s really hot.” and, “look at you dating two really good-looking, interesting men.”
Poly success!