Because we’re not monogamous?

Yeah, I have a boyfriend. But I also had a Daddy until demands on time and distance made that kind of peter out a little sexually and whatnot. We still talk a bunch. And Craftsmate and I are about to enter what could be a three year long distance relationship because I will be heading to grad school a fairly significant distance from him. We’ve been gearing up to start exploring other partners. I’d like someone more Daddy-like and nurturing and he wants someone more masochistic. These people would be, of course, secondaries. 

I also have zero interest in spending my entire life with the same person. Yeah, I’d like a primary spouse-like figure. But it would be ideal if we could both have the trust and accountability to pursue other stuff, too.

I’ve been wrapped up in my senior year and writing a thesis, so I haven’t had a ton of time to explore other partners. I have barely had enough time to devote to my primary relationship. So maybe I’m a little more polyamorous in ideology than practice right now. Sorry.

And my gosh. You wouldn’t ask a lesbian to prove she’s a lesbian after she hasn’t gotten any pussy action in a couple of months.