Do you think there will ever be a time when you’d want a life without a ply aspect? Like marriage etc or would there always be that feeling I suppose is the best word for lack of a better one

Honestly, no. It’s an essential part of my sexuality, I’ve discovered, and I don’t want partners who aren’t also into it/practicing it. I don’t think marriage (if I even go down that route) necessitates monogamy, and I have no interest in a monogamous marriage.