So, my therapist is fairly kink-aware and poly-aware, so yes. It was a lot of work to get to a place where I’m comfortable talking to her about that stuff, but I feel like I might be there. 

You have to remember that these people are professionals working to help you. They’re there for you and for your benefit. So if this is something you feel you need to talk about, you should find a professional you feel comfortable talking to about it.