I think the reason that so many people are surprised by the idea that your Sir isn’t white is because of the fact that most of the (professional) pictures/gifs/videos on Tumblr show a white Dominant. And so maybe they are quick to assume that because you are white (at least, I think so. I’m assuming here, and if I’m wrong, I apologize), your Sir is white. Hope you didn’t mind me putting my two cents in.

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No, that makes perfect sense (cents pun pun pun.) And, yes, I am white.

You’re correct that representation is a huge issue, but I guess I just get frustrated when people ask me over and over (when I’ve definitely answered it before) and how people get genuinely shocked about it.

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