I’m sorry, I never answered this because I was at a loss of how to explain what to do!

I don’t claim to be an expert on giving lap dances. I have a little bit of a dance background and maybe that helps? I’ve been told I’m all right but I’m not exactly out here getting paid for my skills.

There’s some videos on YouTube, surely. And otherwise just go on what feels good and what your partner seems to enjoy. Or, better yet: go to a strip club and get a lap dance yourself!!!

Find somebody who looks friendly. Tell the dancer you want to give a lap dance to your partner and give a nice tip and maybe they’ll give a few pointers. But the best way to learn is to experience. Maybe even make a night of it with your friends: have dinner before, go out, make some crazy memories.