Unfortunately, girls aren’t an equation where you substitute in the right values, balance the sides and bam – orgasm. It can vary from girl to girl, it can vary from encounter to encounter.

I’m not super orgasmic myself, but I really enjoy sexual encounters and don’t feel the need to cum every time. But, what I have learned about myself I have learned from experience. 

So, relax. Actually, relax. Read some stuff that turns you on or watch something that makes you squirm. See what feels good, see what doesn’t. There’s no easy way to make someone cum, really. And I’ve found that the times it was hardest for me to cum were the times I was just telling myself over and over, “cum already” and giving myself unnecessary pressure. 

Just enjoy the experience. Don’t worry about cumming. If it happens, it happens.