You said something about the guy you were seeing giving you a spanking in his car, do all of the people you date go into it knowing the kinds of things you are in to?

On my okcupid, I’ve answered questions indicating I’m submissive and whatnot. If they do enough research, potential suitors get the idea.

Also, I’m huge on consent. Like, in a nonnegotiable sense. So, he asked me earlier if he could (he likes my butt a whole lot) and I said, yes, I was into it.