Hi Ivy, question for you. At what point do you tell a date about your primary relationship and polyamory? My bf and I are toying with the idea of trying to date other people, but I really have no idea how to bring up that subject or when. Have you and Sir got weird reactions or do the people you date always know about your relationship beforehand?

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So, I have it right up on my okcupid profile. There’s even a link to his on mine in case someone might be interested in him!

I get stupid messages from people who clearly don’t read my profile and I just ignore them. Or people who think I’m cheating on my boyfriend. I also ignore these.

Typically I prefer to go out with people who also have primary partners anyway. There’s less pressure and we can understand each other better.

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