Red (seven insecurities – gee thanks): That sometimes I am too loud, that I am very short, that I unintentionally come across as condescending, that I unintentionally come across as vain, that my body is this that or the other thing, that people will think I am full of shit, and that I am offensive or insensitive. 

Yellow (five turn-ons): Confidence, intelligence, banter, ambition and assertiveness (not to be confused with being a douche.)