So, here’s the thing. This blog shows only small facets of people.
Sir is one of the kindest, gentlest, sweetest people, both in and out of the context of our D/s relationship. When I had pneumonia, before we were even a couple, he called my mother and asked her what kind of tea he should make me. He cries at the mere mention of the scene in The Lion King where Mufasa dies.
I cite these examples to say that he is a deep, complicated human being and that being in a relationship with him is not simply an act of bravery.
As for the guy in the car story: meh. Probably.