They’re two different people.

Sir is my primary partner. We maintain a vanilla relationship in addition to a D/s dynamic. He’s more of a sadist, but he’s got some Daddydom tendencies. But, he doesn’t really like to be called Daddy and his interests lean more into training and “service” than nurturing and pampering. Which is fine and we’re quite happy.

Daddy is a secondary partner who is into the nurturing and the pampering and the spoiling and all that fun stuffs.  

I’m a lucky girl.