Hi there!
Thank you for reaching out. I’m flattered that you enjoy my blogging and I’m glad that you’re starting to become interested in pursuing kink. HOWEVER. I would urge you not to jump into stuff and just find a Dom for having a Dom’s sake. Don’t feel as if you need to have such and such amount of experience under your belt just because of your age.
I regret myself doing stuff with people I wasn’t 100% into just for the sake of “getting it overwith.” Find someone you trust…and don’t rush it!
Off my soapbox: I don’t know, I think the first time I reached subspace was the first time I seriously got tied up and spanked. I didn’t really know what it was and I felt a little dizzy and “all up in my head”, as I described it. And when I went home I experienced sub-drop for the first time, which wasn’t so fun.