Hi! I recently started following you and I have to say, I probably read all if not most of your personal experiences from your tumblr in 2 days. I love how well you write and how fascinating your experiences are! I’m very new to sex despite being 23 -___- and your blog totally inspires me to try and find a Dom and gain more experience! Thank you for writing all these wonderful posts! Since it’s an ask box, when and how was the first time you reached subspace?

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Hi there! 

Thank you for reaching out. I’m flattered that you enjoy my blogging and I’m glad that you’re starting to become interested in pursuing kink. HOWEVER. I would urge you not to jump into stuff and just find a Dom for having a Dom’s sake. Don’t feel as if you need to have such and such amount of experience under your belt just because of your age. 

I regret myself doing stuff with people I wasn’t 100% into just for the sake of “getting it overwith.” Find someone you trust…and don’t rush it!

Off my soapbox: I don’t know, I think the first time I reached subspace was the first time I seriously got tied up and spanked. I didn’t really know what it was and I felt a little dizzy and “all up in my head”, as I described it. And when I went home I experienced sub-drop for the first time, which wasn’t so fun.

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