I have been in a serious monogamous relationship. I do believe that a relationship can be serious even if it is not monogamous. But, yes, I am capable of monogamy.

The reason why you won’t really find any of that here is because the last serious relationship (which was monogamous) I was in ended a little bit before I started this tumblr. My life is crazy busy and my prospects have been pretty slim, so I have not entered into another serious, committed relationship (be it monogamous or nonmonogamous) where I am the primary partner. While sometimes it seems appealing, this past year and the upcoming year have been/are going to be so crazy and busy that it’s not fair to me or another person to try to build a committed relationship in that kind of environment.