First off great tumblr! I am new to the sub dom lifestyle.. well have always been interested, but just found a consenting party to be mine :) anyway I’ve been looking around at other peoples experiences and have found tits to be extremely descriptive, which is great. But what does SG mean? How long have you been a sub? Any advice for a noob besides the obvious, maybe something you’ve learned from experience?

Standard

Thank you very much, I’m glad you’re enjoying it. And, welcome to the lifestyle. 

Descriptive tits? Tell me more.

SG refers to the Southern Gentleman. We’re just a series of escalating dares waiting to happen. Or, in a less cryptic way, we’re best friends and occasional fuckbuddies. He doesn’t know about this tumblr, but he’s a prominent character in it.

It’s hard to really say how long I’ve been a sub. I was fascinated with getting captured and tied up ever since I was a little girl on the playground. When I developed sexually, it started to factor itself into my sexuality. But, it’s always sort of been a part of me, I guess, which has been the cause of a lot of joy and even more grief.

Advice: Communicate all the time. You really can never talk enough about stuff. You need that time to unpack and determine what worked, what didn’t, how both parties are feeling. Oh, and go buy some bondage tape. You’re welcome.

<3, Ivy

Leave a Reply