As someone with an upstairs neighbour who I blush when I see in case he’s heard the sound of me being cropped through my ceiling / his floor what’s your best advice on overcoming the challenge of thin walls? (I’m angling for more than ‘be quiet’ ;))

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Gags. Covering things with blankets. Buying a t-shirt that says “get some headphones, prude”.

I honestly have a lot of problems with my neighbor being a little bit judgmental about me making noises through the walls. I used to just sort of blush and avoid her, but whatever. She’s never confronted me about it directly so she can handle it. I’m not changing my lifestyle for her biphobic bullcrap agenda.

If the guy hasn’t filed a compliant, odds are 1) he’s going to freaking deal with it or 2) he likes it. Assume it’s the second and proceed proudly.

<3, Ivy

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