In terms of 2012 generally, my gosh, I have no idea. I’d like to buy a ballgag. I’ve actually never worn one and I’d love to try.
As for the Southern Gentleman, he actually doesn’t read my tumblr. However, while I’m all for dropping hints and he’s all for taking them, the situation with his girlfriend sometimes makes things a bit complicated. While he is in an open relationship, I don’t like to put too much strain on it by constantly demanding his physical attention, especially since his girlfriend is completely vanilla. Sometimes, it’s a little hard. But we care about each other, I do believe, and we do try to make it work.
But, yeah, thrilled and scared tend to be the dominant emotions when he gets an idea.
<3, Ivy