As this wasn’t asked in the spirit of sex positivity or kindness, I don’t feel the need to answer this in that way. Sir and I have plenty of firsts and milestones. Some together, some apart. This doesn’t lessen our relationship. This isn’t something he “never could” do, it’s just something that didn’t happen. He’s bruised me plenty of times, and fuck you for implying that this is some sort of inferiority on his part. He’s an amazing dom. Is he jealous? He’s mostly excited to know Old Ironsides can be breached with the right equipment. I’m sure if he used the specific tool WRM used, he would’ve gotten bruises, too. This isn’t some sort of race to see who can bruise me first, and this question is profoundly unhealthy.