It has been decided that if I want to have my pussy used at all, it needs to be trained as thoroughly as my other holes.. š
So, now I have a special new toy!Ā (http://www.minnalife.com/products/kgoal)Ā
This toy is intended to be used by vanilla people for kegel exercises.. But has been repurposed by Sir to train and objectify his slutās holes. He says that if he bothers to take my belt off, it better be worth the hassle. š
How it works: The big part goes in my pussy, and when I squeeze it, it vibrates. The harder I squeeze- the more it vibrates (yay!).. And if allowed- the handle can be toggled on and vibrate for clitoral stimulation (double yay!). Ā
This toy has bluetooth and an app for my phone, and can record Ā how hard Iām squeezing. It fits under my metal belt, and you can still hear the vibrator depending on how hard I squeeze.Ā
I can already imagine some scenarios where Iām muzzled, locked up, and unable to communicate except for making noise with the vibrator. IĀ can also envision some tasks where Iām not allowed to squeeze at all. Sooooo much fun to be had!
My only complaint is that itās kind of a big toy for me and somewhat difficult to get all the way in my pussy. Thankfully, I can deflate it a little, and its pretty soft.Ā
Iām sure this will not be a standard part of my uniform because Iām WAY too excited about it.. š
interesting toy
So many possibilities!!!
reference
6 Types of Love
StandardEros
a passionate physical and emotional love based on aesthetic enjoyment; stereotype of romantic loveLudus
a love that is played as a game or sport; conquest; may have multiple partners at onceStorge
an affectionate love that slowly develops from friendship, based on similarityPragma
love that is driven by the head, not the heartMania
obsessive love; experience great emotional highs and lows; very possessive and often jealous loversAgape
selfless altruistic love; spiritual
sorry, this isn’t a very sexy message, but I’m a bisexual female and while I wouldn’t mind being in a relationship with a man, but the idea of having sex with one repulses me a bit and I’m just very confused. Have you heard of anyone with similar feelings? Again, sorry if this downstairs make sense but I’d just like answers :/
StandardHi there! š
Iāve seen that, usually in women whoāve had sexual abuse in their past. Iāve also seen the other way around, where a heterosexual woman labeled herself ābisexual above the waistā because she liked kissing, and boobs, but just wasnāt into vaginas. For that matter, I know a married lesbian who thinks menās bodies are sexier than womenās bodies. Sexuality is realy strange, sometimes.
I have no idea what youāre going through so I donāt have much advice other than to say that until you know more about yourself or are fairly satisfied that there arenāt any more answers, being confused is a healthy response. Itās much better, in my opinion, than having no questions about it.
Since youāre asking me, Iāll assume you have an interest in BDSM, too, so I also want to tell you that in the BDSM communinty there are some people who want sex with their kink, and others who just want their kink and sex is very exclusive. Also, sex is very rare at your average BDSM play party. (.. at least near me. That said, some parties are better than others.) This is one reason why one friend of mine doesnāt like to play at parties; she wants sex if sheās going to play, and doesnāt want to fuck in front of people. For groups of people into spanking, Iāve heard that in some groups youāre not even allowed to take off your underwear unless youāre behind closed doors. Itās that way at the parties of the spanking group near me.
Please come back in a few days and see if anyone has reblogged with comments. Perhaps someone else will reblog with their own thoughts.
I was confused for years. I thought I was bisexual. I can fall in love with a guy or a woman. I am even more physically attracted to men. But I never couldnāt stand the idea of having ānormalā sex with them. I thought it would change with age. It hasnāt. Thereās no abuse behind that, itās just how I am. I declared myself a lesbian; there Iām comfortable with all aspects of a relationship.
Later, thanks to the internet, I realised I am and always was interested in kinky side of men! I definitely like having male friends, sometimes I need a hug from a guy. Then I skip the whole romantic and vanilla part. And then I find myself wanting to dominate a man, or, if I really trust him, being submissive to him. Again thanks to the internet I found out there are men whom Iām compatible with, and got to know some guys, and spent good times with them.
In my opinion any feeling is OK. There are so many variations. Sometimes even labels donāt fit. Am I biromantic, when Iām able to fall in love also with a man but Iām not interested in dating? Am I bisexual, when Iām attracted to men, too, but I want only āweirdā sex with them? Who cares š
There were a couple of responses to this ask, all awesome, but this one is my favorite because of that last paragraph! Labels should be used as shorthand, not constraints.
I don’t know why I didn’t see this post before, but thank god for it. I didn’t realize there were many people out there that felt this same way, and this makes me feel a little less weird and alone… Although just to add to this, I also consider myself demisexual, and that expands out to who I feel comfortable getting kinky with…
I’m attracted to both guys and girls, and sometimes I lean way more towards girls, and occasionally it’s guys I really get the hots for, but I’ve only even been really into one person, to the point of being willing to be totally submissive with him. Other than that, I’ve just never been truly attracted to someone or had a desire to do anything sexual with a person.
People don’t understand it and it’s very frustrating. I even have a hard time understanding it, because I feel it would be a lot easier if my sexuality would just be “normal”. But then I remember that there really isn’t a good standard for “normal” anyways, and it might make finding someone to be with a little more difficult, but I’m still great and honestly I don’t *need* to be with someone to be happy.