There’s a tool in your arsenal you might not even realize: Grounding.
Denying privileges is a common D/s theme. How far of a step is it to sincerely ground someone for a short period? Not far at all.
A bratting bottom won’t stop acting up at a party. You pull them aside and inform them that not only are they being spanked when you get home, but they are grounded for the weekend.
This is patronizing, controlling, and incredibly belittling. In other words, many people will love it.
(But not all. Negotiate everything with a partner beforehand, including any possible snags with possible other partners or obligations. Have fun.)
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Pick a number of spanks.
You will be strapped to your vibrator for the time it takes to deliver the spanks. Once the spanks are completed, the vibrator will be off and that will be the end of your permission to cum for the foreseeable future.
If you manage to cum before you run out of spanks, the spanking will continue through and after your orgasm until the full number you picked is doled out.
How many will you ask for? 20? 50? 100?