Part of me really wants to broadcast my turn-ons to everyone I know. Or at least the people I’m interested in/ close to. Because the basic formula of flirting really doesn’t work with me, and things that normally turn people on don’t really do it for me. I’m into being restrained and psychologically teased and tormented until I’m no longer capable of feeling self-conscious because I’m so deep in sub-space. I don’t like light, feathery touches so much as feeling a lot of pressure on certain points on my body, or being restrained and tickled. I respond about a million times better to teasing than actual physical stimulation for the most part, and I’ll get turned off if there’s too much touching before my mind is totally melted.