I feel too fat to be desired sexually. 5’4″, 190 pounds, virgin female. I want this beautiful, steamy, naughty sex life but I know I’m too big to be found attractive, physically. (Besides that gross, in my opinion, BBW- I don’t want to be someone’s fat fetish…) What do you suggest I do? I think the only solution is to lose weight, which I’ve been trying and semi accomplishing, but it’s incredibly difficult to want to lose 70 pounds. *sigh*

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sadisticgames:

I am not going to blow smoke up your ass and say things like, “Oh your beautiful just the way you are!”

I’m sure you have already heard it from friends, family, and the like. 

What I will tell you is that your stats are very similar to those of My girl, and although she too would like to shed a few pounds, she is absolutely beautiful in every way. Not just physically, but more importantly in her positive energy, caring ways, witty humor, and sharp intelligence. 

If you want to lose weight, by all means, eat healthy, start an easy work out routine, and find some active hobbies that you can enjoy such as going for walks of some easy hiking. 

Do not, however, forget your positives and focus only on the things you want to change. Remember how awesome you are and know that you aren’t fixing something that is broken, merely polishing up something that is already fantastic. 

SadisticGames, you always blow me away with your amazing, beautiful, and honest answers to people. And, of course, with your sadistic mind and the multitude of gifs 😀

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