Here’s a memory from when abitofamasochist visited me recently. It’s a great example of how great sex doesn’t necessarily mean orgasms.
She was mine.
Well.. she was already mine, by agreement, but that’s not what I’m talking about.
I’m talking about how she trusted me, letting me…
Links
New Crush Courtesy of the Feminist Porn Conference 2014: Episode 1 Madison Young
LinkNew Crush Courtesy of the Feminist Porn Conference 2014: Episode 1 Madison Young
One of the greatest side effects of attending the Feminist Porn Conference a few weeks ago was having the chance to get to know new performers and directors I hadn’t been exposed to before.
I’m one of those people who crushes a lot harder on folks when I have had the chance to talk to them, hear…
I’ve loved Madison Young’s work for a long time. I’m so pleased to hear that she’s as awesome in real life as she appears in her porn!!
The Finisher: A Blowjob Princess Technique
LinkThe Finisher: A Blowjob Princess Technique
This gets a #tutorials tag. The following post received nearly 9,800 notes within the first two weeks, plus this endorsement from Anonymous:
Uhm.. So I have never given a guy a blowjob before and I was so nervous about it when I was planning on surprising my boyfriend for his birthday, but…
Protocol vs. Personal
LinkThe thing about girl is that she’s submissive, but she doesn’t relate to the whole concept of D/s as a “scene” or a “community.” It’s just the way we relate to one another.
So much of what I read on tumblr is this super high-protocol dramatic stuff—and it’s sexy, but it’s also not us. I have so…
Audio Hypnosis: Hypnotic Bondage and Orgasm Control Loop
LinkAudio Hypnosis: Hypnotic Bondage and Orgasm Control Loop
At long last, I’m posting a hypnosis file!… although this isn’t an introductory one. The one I’ve been wanting to make for over a year has yet to materialize.
Download from filecloud.io or Google Drive[1]. It’s also on WarpMyMind.com but downloads from there are restricted until July 6th, 2014.[2]
This file puts you into hypnotic bondage that appears to others as sleep, and then does some nipple torment and orgasm control. It was designed to be listened to in the safety of your own bedroom or even on a plane or while riding in a car on a long road trip.
It’s meant to be looped, and empowers your subconscious to know when it’s time to stop the recording. I suggest setting aside an hour… or two… Because this file is designed to loop, it skips the introductory and rapport-building parts and just jumps right in. If you don’t slip into a hypnotic trance quickly, that’s okay, relax, pretend, and treat this as a hot fantasy file.
This file assumes:
- you can be pulled down into a strong trance rather abruptly (though I hope to make one that’s more for beginners soon that will lay the groundwork for files like this one),
- you can edge from clitoral stimulation (i.e. if you’ve got male parts, you’re welcome to listen, but….),
- you respond well to a commanding style (rather than imagery), and
- last and least, this assumes you’re listening to this via an iPod. How I wish I had said “mp3 player” but instead I said “iPod”! (D’oh!) If you’re using a laptop or some other mp3 player then please pretend/ignore/forgive this one. 😛
(FYI: It also takes advantage of that “promise” trigger I talked about in a previous post. 😉 )
Lasting effects are sore nipples for a few hours (and being very aroused).
I’ve been listening to femsubdenial’s hypnosis file one or two times the last week, but – with today being a snow day and all – I was able to put aside some unrestricted time and finally fall much deeper into trance.
My god, y’all. When I stopped, I thought I was under for about 30-40 minutes, but it had been well over an hour! My pussy was on fire. I was dripping wet and wanted to cum so badly – but I’ve been planning to hold off this entire weekend to see just how much I can drip.
One result that I haven’t had yet – no soreness in my nipples after. Today I felt some pulling, twisting, and pinching, but no real pain during and especially not after. I’m wondering if this is because I haven’t had a lot of nipple torture experience yet, so my mind doesn’t know how to make it up?
All in all, a great experience. Highly recommend if you’re into teasing and/or denial.
Say “Yes” to saying “No” without guilt
LinkSay “Yes” to saying “No” without guilt
(Thanks to prettynaughtythings for writing this and giving me permission to post it.)
Some friendly advice to my friends (especially in the Midwest) who have a hard time with using the word “no” when asked to play:
The following assumes you are not in a power exchange or protocol situation in…
So much good stuff here. As a scene noob with a bad grasp of saying ‘no’, I strongly recommend.
another excruciating day of edging
Linkanother excruciating day of edging
Beautifully written. I felt every word (in all the right places).
By the time yesterday morning came around, I was so far on the edge that I thought I was going to fall off. There was a part of me, my cunt, that didn’t want to be teased anymore. Even if I wasn’t touching it, it ached for release.
So my morning was different. I lied there,…
The Acid Test: must read, especially if you are sub
LinkThe Acid Test: must read, especially if you are sub
The Acid Test & Glossary
Introduction
The term ‘Acid Test’ is an old prospecting term. A powerful acid can dissolve most base metals in a matter of minutes. However, gold will stand up to most acids. So the ‘Acid Test’ was an easy way for people to…
Erotic Hypnosis – The Newbie Compendium on Reddit
LinkErotic Hypnosis – The Newbie Compendium on Reddit
Someone posted a great list of links for those of us interested in hypnosis!
Her Dirty Little Heart: He likes to make me cum while I lie on my tummy these days. It started…
LinkHer Dirty Little Heart: He likes to make me cum while I lie on my tummy these days. It started…
He likes to make me cum while I lie on my tummy these days. It started with watching me straddle my hitachi, then a few weeks later after a back rub he pinned me down and shoved his throbbing cock into me while I desperately tried to slip my hand between my legs.
Friday he told me to lay on…
Oh, Heart, you are awesome.