nudityandnerdery:

ghostofabuttspast:

bidyke:

• It’s based in misogyny
• Bisexuality is associated with women and femininity
• As in “all women are actually bi”
• Bisexuality is a “girls thing”, it’s a thing girls do
• That men are not supposed to
• Male bisexuality is erased because it’s socially unthinkable…

Seriously, I don’t know that I entirely agree with the original post, but artemuscain-gamingandbs, you’re being a complete asshole, with your immediate jump to slurs and misogyny. Yeah, seriously, dude, nice work really proving that OP is wrong when they say that bisexual men don’t talk themselves up while talking shit about bisexual women with these replies. It’s not like you’re “eager to “reclaim” [your] manhood” by trashing a woman with an attack like that.

There are definitely some major reasons for bisexual male erasure- I think OP makes a mistake in talking about erasure of male bisexuality in terms of women, but it’s very true that there are patriarchy issues behind it, because we live in a society that tells us that a dude being even slightly interested in another dude equals TOTALLY GAY, and simultaneously loads us down with a ton of homophobia that tells us that’s wrong and unmanly and piles on all sorts of slurs attached to that. It makes a lot of guys repress that interest- when you talk about how you’ve never met a bi man who (insert example), it’s entirely possible it’s because the men who that largely applies to haven’t felt up to exploring or sharing their bisexuality because our fucking society tells them it’s not okay. 

Masculinity, as posed by our society, is a fucked up, toxic concept, and it’s a really shitty thing to get past. We are told that there are certain roles we are supposed to fit into, and it’s not simple to escape them. You might think you have, but the fact you were so quick to use an ableist, misogynistic insult like that seems like evidence you haven’t gotten past it nearly as much as you’d like to pretend.

Sincerely,
A bisexual man who took a long time to accept and admit to his bisexuality

littlejetgirl:

Especially when it’s cute.
Cuddle me tight, kiss my forehead, and call me your dumb little cocksocket. Call me that in the same tone you would call someone “love” or some other cute nickname.

If I’m taking a bath come in to talk about my day and casually unzip your fly and…

ofgeography:

actualginnyweasley:

natnovna:

i was 14 and i was walking through a mall by myself at 12am after my shift at coldstone creamery lol and a bunch of men started whistling and meowing and getting really close to me and they kept asking me questions and i kept not…

odinsblog:

“And water is wet"…"and fire is hot”

iMho possibly the most totally ignorant or useless comments you could add to almost any post addressing serious subject matters:

Rape culture…”and water is wet”

Structural racism…”and fire is hot”

Misogyny…”water is wet and fire is hot”

A…

thinkivykink:

learningpoly:

The app includes a social network for sharing experiences, shielded from judgy outsiders.

This doesn’t seem like something I’d need/use personally, but I think it’s a great idea!  Depending on how good the app itself is, of course.  Apparently the calendar function isn’t really an improvement over Google Calendar, but I like the idea of the other features, like sharing events and texts with some/all of your partners, and creating lists of rules/boundaries (or not) with partners.

Well, hey.

sweetnessandaddy:

The deepest subspace I’ve ever been in was when Daddy washed my hair. He massaged and lathered and rinsed me delicately, making me sit on the tiled shower floor so I didn’t fidget while he combed conditioner through all my tangles. It was steamy and warm, a reverie, and I slipped so easily into my…

secretsandsubs:

sarpedom:

patheticandpretty:

Yesterday my owner and I went out on a group date with two vanilla couples. At some point I got him to buy me a bottle of iced tea to drink while we walked around. When I was done with it, I asked him if he would throw the bottle away for me because he was closer to a garbage can or whatever, and…

Inspiration.

I have no words.

pastel-gizibe:

let-them-eat-cake21:

honeybeeprofessor:

DOnt shop at urban outfitters

they literally sold a blood-stained-looking sweatshirt with the name of a college that there was a school shooting at

they sold prescription-drug related accessories trying to make it cute

they…

FUCK

Uuuggghhhh