This was the best. Ever.
truth
Black people police themselves so much in public
StandardAnd they don’t even think about it. Don’t talk too loud, don’t make too many requests, don’t complain too forcefully about shitty service, put up with weird ass slightly racial compliments. And sometimes we joke about it like “lol! Better not do (normal human thing) cuz then people might think we’re uncivilized niggers” but it’s a painful constricting way to live. And not a type of way of living that non-Black people will understand
today, before the dick and after. he fucked my soul out. he fucked my career aspirations out. he fucked my life force out. before the dick i was 26 with a bright future ahead of me, after the dick i need iyanla to fix my life. beware of the good dick ladies, it will make you lose your mind and your twist out.
Best of both worlds
You take two of the greatest things in the world and put them into one photo
Why does unicorn hunting have to be problematic. I’ve seen the aeguments against it but I still dont see it as a problem.
StandardSo, problematic in this scenario doesn’t necessarily mean *a problem.* It’s more that it’s a situation that should be handled delicately.
A lot of unicorn-hunting is a male-female coupling (ie Sir and I) looking for a single girl down to have a threesome (which is, yeah, our situation.) Commonly, the interests and needs of that third party are set aside for the interests and needs of the couple.
The whole process of unicorn-hunting is inherently selfish. Essentially, it’s two people with a deep, pre-existing relationship looking for a third person to enter into that dynamic for the sexual gratification of those two people (and ideally the third person as well) without any of the emotional gratification of the relationship. People who end up unicorning can end up being fetishized (couples that want to fuck a girl of a particular race are disgustingly common and incredibly problematic) or just feeling used (metaphorically or even literally being kicked out of the bed immediately after the encounter.)
When you’re out to have a threesome like that, you’ve got to be mindful of the needs and expectations of that third party. You need to be up-front and honest. You need to be respectful of that person’s feelings and triggers. And a lot of the time, people are – often unintentionally and without a hint of police – still a little insensitive to those things.
I’d honestly prefer a kind of sister sub scenario if I’m talking about ideals here. But that also can be a whole can of worms.
Everything about this is so right.
