Confidence is the most important key to topping. If you’re in charge, roll with your mistakes. As long as it wasn’t a big one, don’t acknowledge it till after the session is over. Your bottom wants you in control, trust that they trust you.
topping
the birth of bosslady
Chathim: I like being in that role.
me: What role is that?
him: *mumbling* fucktoy
me: And what role did I play?
him: Boss.