Defined
reminder
The only person worthy of you is the person who prays for your well being, craves your presence & acknowledges the energy you put into them.
Reyna Biddy (via kushandwizdom)
Do not look for a sanctuary in anyone except yourself.
Also your glo up can’t be just physical. Anyone can get in shape and learn to do their eyebrows. Your glo up gotta be spiritual too, you gotta be the person the you from five years ago needed to talk to for guidance and love.
It is so important to surround yourself with people who will teach you things and lift you up to become a better person everyday.
Stop saying sorry. Say thank you instead. When you say, “sorry for being a jerk” the other person is forced to either call you a jerk or say it wasnt a big deal. Instead, say “thank you for being so patient with me” so the other person has a reason to say they love you.
I saw this gem on Reddit tonight. It was posted under a topic of “What ‘little’ things you can do to improve your relationship with your significant other.” I’m definitely taking this piece of advice with me into my next relationship. (via exoticwild)
There are a lot of posts here saying “Allow your kids to be different!” and that’s important. But the other way around, it’s important, too: Never force your kids to be different.
I used to work in a kindergarten and there was one little 4-year-old boy who walked in with a blue mohawk one day. His mom dyed her hair blue, too and she was very proud of her son and herself for being “special” and not like the others. The other kids thought it was really cool and funny, nobody laughed at him. However, as soon as his mom left he started crying. When i tried to comfort him, he told me he doesn’t like it when people touch his hair and now everybody wants to touch his hair. When asked if he told his mom, he just looked up at me and said "She didn’t listen.“
So, long story short: Don’t raise your child “different”. Raise them individually. Listen. Care. Find out who your child is and who they want to be. And if they want blue hair, that’s cool. But if not, please respect it.
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- http://bunnyandfawn.blogspot.com/2015/05/30-simple-and-easy-ideas-for-self-care.html
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- http://bunnyandfawn.blogspot.com/2015/05/30-simple-and-easy-ideas-for-self-care.html
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- http://bunnyandfawn.blogspot.com/2015/05/30-simple-and-easy-ideas-for-self-care.html
and drawing/coloring 30 ideas for self care can also be considered self care.
Today at Easter dinner, one of my dad’s friends, who I haven’t seen since I was a kid, came up behind me while we were taking pictures and pinched my butt. So I turned to him and said quietly (because I didn’t feel like making a scene) that he was not allowed to touch me that way because it was inappropriate and he laughed in my fucking face and said “Oh, right cause you’re a liberal.” And so I said to him, in the loudest voice possible, that no, it was because I was a fucking human being and my body is mine alone and no one can touch me without my complete consent and if he ever even thought of pinching my butt again, I would punch him in the face. And the whole party was staring at us and you could see how uncomfortable he was even though he tried to laugh it off, and then my dad told him to leave. So, girls, boys, and everything in between, if anyone EVER touches you without your consent in a sexual manner, CALL THEM OUT. Let everyone around you know what they did and tell them to never do it again. Don’t laugh or smile or even frown it off, then walk away (unless it endangers your safety.) Expose them for what they are.