It’s incredibly cute! This post is filled with care and love! Amazing! Parents from the black community are forced to take care of the mental health of their children from an early age, because they will face many problems related to the color of their skin, throughout their lives!
Follow the example of this wonderful and caring mother, for the sake of the future generation!
#BlackPride
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Concept: My children not being corrupted by whiteness and never going through self hate.
Same as pass me the remote life goals 😹😹✊🏿✊🏿🤗
And get me water as I sit right next to the fridge goals
The tradition continues
THERE’S RICE AT HOME I SKDkljngkmvcsjlxznkm
That feeling when I finally get to yell about the one dish in the sink
Call them downstairs and tell them to go get the phone when it’s already in your right hand but you left handed.
^LMAOO
me: I think it’s time for us to have kids!
my spouse: i dunno, are we ready?
me: hell yeah you’d better be ready *opens back door to reveal an enclosure full of baby goats*
5 year old realizing he’s going to be a big brother
This is the most precious thing in the world.
I cried no joke his face 😍 “is it really in there?”
(Source: http://w0lfmami.tumblr.com/)
When i was a kid my mom and i had a code word to let her know when i needed her to say no. For instance if a kid at school asked me to come over and stay the night but i really didnt want to, id call my mama and ask her, and then end it with “please, Mom?” I never call my mama Mom, just Mama or Moomoo, so she would know immediately to say that I was grounded or had too much homework or some other bullshit. We also had a system the other way around, so if i called her to see how her date was going and she needed an out, she would call me babydoll and id tell her i heard scary noises and was frightened and needed her to come home or something.
Anyways, my point is that every family should hqve a system of codes to keep them safe. Go do that.Dude. Family life on point.
Reasons not to add me on snapchat:
What do you mean? I want to know more about you tiny snail son
Smol
LOOK AT THAT SNAIL
So I was out to eat and this child(maybe 3 years old) in the booth next to us started crying loudly. The mom tried to calm him down but he started to go into tantrum mode and fussed even more. So she picked him up and walked out of the restaurant to a bench outside our window. We could hear her ask him, “look at me, what’s upsetting you?” To which he responded with more crying. So she says, “Well you’re clearly overwhelmed, so we’re going to sit out here and take a break until you can compose yourself and tell me what’s wrong.” Which is exactly what happened after a couple minutes. Anyways I just think it’s so good to speak to your children in a logical, respectful manner instead of shushing them and leaving them to deal with their stress alone.
I’ve done this a few times with my youngest niece (she gets angry A LOT) and it works really well, to the point that she’ll come up to me and just tell me what’s wrong.
That’s the idea of how you’re SUPPOSED to do timeouts. It’s not a punishment to isolate them, but to give them an opportunity to calm down and say why they did what they did and if they did something wrong to explain why what they did was wrong or hurtful. (Also it’s supposed to be like one minute for every year old the child is or until they calm down enough to return to what they were doing, not like half an hour like my mom tried to pull on me as a kid).
me as a father: alright kids that was a fun movie but let’s talk about why it was problematic. casey, you go first.