ok so first i want u to understand that confidence (4 me) isn’t a 100% or 24/7 kinda deal. it comes & goes. there are good days & bad days. & sometimes on good days, a single interaction can fuck that shit up
second, i want u to know that my confidence comes from the fact that overall, i like who i am. i make an effort to do things & treat ppl in a way that even when i feel like a piece of shit, i can look @ the way i treat ppl & say, i did a good job even if i feel the opposite. sometimes i have to write things out & see them.
third, i want u to know that i know—for a fact—that u can be just as confident as me. but it’s a tough road w/ a slippery slope & i want u to be prepared for (even more) bad days. but also be open to good days. surround urself w/ ppl who can & like & want to point out the good stuff abt u. buy something to make urself feel nice. treat urself kindly & w/ forgiveness. love urself. it’s ok to take care of urself💗
