Rachel,

the world is full of men
who would pick you apart and call it kindness.
Men who would criticize you down to your ankles
and then turn around to say that you worry too much
about your appearance.

Men who would consider themselves more important
than your career goals
but also belittle you for not having career goals.
Men who would complain about your past
and then put themselves in the way of your future.

The world is full of men
who would confuse obsession with romance.
Men who would make a meal out of the core of you
and call it love.  

Men who would lay your flaws out like a banquet
and then shove them in your face.

Men who would say they love you in spite of you.

Rachel, the world is full of Ross Gellers.