A little Sunday night recreation just wrapped up an hour or so ago….
… stripped to nothing but black tights and high heels, I had her arms and hands imprisoned in tightly laced arm corsets and leather mitts, a mouth filling harness gag and hood covered her head, a tight posture collar kept her head/neck immobile, and ankle cuffs with chains kept her from running off and/or kicking me…I dragged her into the set while she struggled and fought me as I hooked her bonds to the chains waiting for her…. Then after I had her fixed in place, tormented with some some tickling, spanking pinching and groping… and all the while she could only wiggle and emit muffled protests..
bdsm
Remy’s first night of Domestic Discipline was painful, humiliating, and hard. Just the way she wanted it.
Making A Good Scene Happen
LinkThis isn’t really a tutorial, but I’m still tagging this under #tutorials!
So now that my Becoming Art post has been around for awhile I wanted to talk about how it came about and what went into planning and making that scene as incredible as it was. I really enjoy pickup…
Since a book isn’t happening any time soon, I’ve turned to something less ambitious and actually far more in the spirit of classic anarchism: zine making.
This is the read-friendly version, print-friendly version coming soon.
This is beautiful. Here is a transcription of the text in the images:
[Cover]
A first exploration into why I like kink but NOT bdsm
TRIGGER WARNINGS:
- rape culture
- predators
- abuse
[Page 1]
I think kink is really amazing.
All these possibilities to find eroticism or romance or care in unlikely places.
[Page 2]
There is:
- shoes,
- fantasy,
- fabrics
- (playing) creatures,
- gender roles,
- places,
- touch,
- dirt,
- cleaning,
- publicity,
- history,
- roles,
- orgasms (or not),
- drag,
- clothing,
- styles,
- privacy,
- your kink here: __________.
[Page 3]
But if you look for kink you find “BDSM” and that’s usually like…
- …one person is powerless,
- and getting tied up,
- and likes pain,
- inferior,
- Pornografic,
and the other is like the exact opposite.
…
That’s not very creative. (Boring! Restrictive! Binary!)
[Page 4]
And,
For a community that claims to value consent and communication, BDSM sure has a lot of…
- “let me push your boundaries”
- “but you know you LIKED it”
- violence,
- “it’s not rape if…”
- “but did you use your safeword?”
- “expressing your desire is topping from the bottom”
- “you don’t like that…yet”
…along with trying to protect an image of NOT being abusers, ends up protecting abusers, rapists and predators.
…does not allow conversations about consent violations.
So they
talk the talk
but they end up
not walking
the walk.[Page 5]
Imagine if we could restart kink, explore it without BDSM.
without racism
without rape culture
without sexism
without domism
without patriarchy
without transphobia
without shaming
vulnerability.This is not easy. We’re not all happy and healthy, and neither are our kinks.
[Page 6]
But it seems worth the
trip
exploration
workImagine…
- kink without power binaries
- without identity borders or flags
- kink without dominants
- kink without clearly defined roles
- kink as a world to explore, not a club to join
Imagine exploring.
[Back Cover]
Fuck copyright.
Steal my stuff.
If you would like to print and distribute this zine, there are print-ready versions of the above imagines available here.
Thank you so much for making a transcript. After about 3 hours of scissors and glue I was too tired to do that today. thanks <3
Teasing can be fun, and if the person being teased can be patient and tolerate it, the payoff is that much better. Think pleasure delaying. In this case, Buffy didn’t have much choice, as her hands were bound to the bed and she was blindfolded. As you can see, even this little bit of teasing was getting her rather riled up, which made it that much more enjoyable for her when I started to really play with her. Seduction is an art form, and one well worth learning.
Oh fuck yea 😉😛💦
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