As a very small, goth twink with a heavy (almost absurd) obsessed with their “aesthetic,” I’m very pleased and annoyed my boyfriend made me dress like a high-class, pearl-wearing Woman after showing him your post regarding similar situations. (Not immediately, though. It was a surprise. Nice 👌)

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theruleset:

An extra fun part about pushing gender norms is that pushing BACK can be humiliating and hot.

It also works in reverse! Forcing someone to dress in a style outside their normal comfort zone can make them vulnerable in consensual and sexy way. We can reclaim the term “crossdressing” to a more generic, gender-free connotation.