Model sabreaphenix
Photography by -dearfriend
Adventures💕That pink adds to this photo so much, I love it, such a nice pop of colour. x
Star Wars + hugs
@copperbadge for your weekly hug posts?
The Saturday Morning Hug For All!
This week’s hug is ALL THE STAR WARS HUGS. You gotta get lots of hugs in before the new year! Thanks @kamzilla-rex!
If you have a hug for the universe, feel free to reblog with your own!
Stop fetishizing black men ✨
I used to think I was being too picky but fuck that. I deserve someone who wants to know about me. It may sound silly but I don’t wanna be out here fucking with people who never ask my favorite color or if I ate today. I deserve someone who wants to hear my dreams just as much as I want to hear theirs. I deserve the same energy and effort I release. Fuck that.Â
basically:
- it is not a virtue to not set boundaries
- ignoring your own wants and needs is not a healthy way to show love
- people worth loving will respect your boundaries
- people worth loving will not want you to set aside your own wants and needs to make them more comfortable
- ‘having no boundaries at all’ describes a person who is very hurt, not a person who is very virtuous
- suffering for others’ comfort is not how you be a good person, it is just how you become very hurt
- sometimes you need to make others uncomfortable in order to get your needs met
- your needs are more important than others’ comfort
- your comfort is equally important to others’ comfort
- making other people uncomfortable is not, in itself, ethically wrong or morally dubious
