I don’t want to answer this because it is making me angry but I know people don’t know so I will try to explain.
(pretty sure I’ve explained this before but I don’t remember how I tagged it)
Also because looking it up doesn’t come up with a lot of good resources.
Race play is when people “reject all political correctness” aka introduce racist language and/or rhetoric into sexual play.
Example; some guy asked me to “be his little negro girl” and “worship his white cock” and be his “(sex) slave.” I wanted to punch that motherfucker in his pompous little face. He used the parenthesis and it was very clear what he was suggesting. It is disgusting and innapropriate and fetishizing and people nearly ALWAYS do it without getting to know you or understanding your particular kinks and that shows that they really are racist pricks with no regard for who I am as an individual.
Pretty sure badlittlekitten and brightswitch would tear out someone’s throat for even suggesting it.
You are correct, I would tear someones throat out for suggesting it.
I had someone reblog a photo from me forever ago and add on a raceplay caption. (the words n*gger and massa were in it).
It’s fuckin gross, it’s triggering, it’s disrespectful as fuck. If the POC is into it that’s their business but these white people coming into our spaces with that shit need a brick to the face.
I’ve also unfollowed blogs run by black girls who were into that. Bear in mind: TWO of my people are white. Having a problem with race play isn’t even KIND OF LIKE having a problem with interracial relationships (yes I’ve seen that suggested)
But best believe if Knight or Master ever fixed their mouths to call me any kinda slur or tell me to “Worship their white cocks” and there would be an issue.
There’s a line, and white raceplayers love to cross it in much the same way male “doms” like to do and say all kinds of rapisty predatory shit. It’s that exact phenomena compounded with racism.
And it seriously needs to stop.
